The Fitness Matchmaker: How to Find Your Perfect Workout
- Basma Al Kakoun
- Nov 12, 2024
- 4 min read

Stop Overthinking Your Workout: The Answer Lies in You
"Should I do HIIT, running, bootcamp, full-body splits, Pilates, Body Pump, or maybe Body Combat? What about jumping rope? Or just strength training? Oh, how about Zumba? Wait—pickleball is fun! No, no, yoga!"
Sound familiar? If this internal debate feels like your morning mantra, you’re not alone. Let me drop a truth bomb: every single one of these workouts is amazing. Yes, every single one.
But here’s the catch: the best workout for you isn’t about what got someone else results—it’s about what fits you, your preferences, and your lifestyle. Why?
The Problem With Copy-Paste Fitness
When you pick a workout style just because it worked for your friend or your favorite influencer, you’re setting yourself up for:
Burnout: If it doesn’t vibe with you, you won’t stick with it. Period.
Stress Overload: Forcing yourself to do something you dislike is basically gifting your body stress—and trust me, stress is not the key to weight loss.
Now, you might be rolling your eyes and saying, “But I don’t even like exercise! How am I supposed to choose something that’s sustainable when I hate all of it?”
Don’t worry, I’ve got you. Let’s figure it out together.
Pro Tip: Don’t force yourself into someone else’s routine. If it doesn’t make you smile, it’s not your style.
Step 1: What’s Your Personality?
Ask yourself:
Are you calm and zen, or do you thrive on chaos and energy?
Do you love loud music that makes you feel like a superhero, or soft, flowy movements paired with soothing beats?
Do you want to sweat it out with a crowd (hello, group fitness!), or would you rather work out solo or with a partner?
For example:
If you’re outgoing and love a party vibe, Zumba or Body Combat might be your jam.
If you’re chill and want mindful movement, try yoga or Pilates.
If you enjoy intensity but value efficiency, HIIT or jump rope could be your go-to.
Pro Tip: Every fitness journey is personal. Stop worrying about trends and start focusing on what makes you feel good.
Step 2: What’s Your Lifestyle?
Now let’s get practical:
Time: When can you realistically fit in 20–30 minutes? Morning, afternoon, or late night?
Place: Do you prefer the gym, your living room, a park, or following a YouTube workout?
Consistency: What’s something you can commit to at least 2–3 times a week without dreading it?
Your answers will narrow down the options. For example:
If you’re crunched for time and work out at home, you might love Body Pump or a full-body YouTube routine.
If you thrive on social accountability, try a local bootcamp or pickleball club.
If you prefer solo workouts, a strength training plan or running could be your perfect match.
Step 3: Let Go of Perfection
Still feeling stuck? Here's the ultimate truth:It doesn’t matter which form of exercise you choose—it matters how much you enjoy it and how consistently you do it.
You could be burning calories crushing a HIIT session, flowing through yoga poses, or shaking it in a Zumba class. As long as you’re moving and pairing it with mindful eating, you’re on the right path.
Pro Tip: Fitness isn’t about being perfect; it’s about showing up consistently. Start small and build momentum over time.
Step 4: Take Action Today with the "Workout Speed-Dating" Method
If you're overwhelmed by options, here's an actionable plan: try one new workout each week for the next month.
Week 1: Join a group class like Zumba, Body Combat, or Bootcamp.
Week 2: Explore solo workouts like running, yoga, or strength training.
Week 3: Try an unconventional option like pickleball or jumping rope.
Week 4: Combine styles—like doing a short HIIT session followed by calming yoga.
After the month, reflect: Which one did you actually look forward to? Which one made you feel accomplished? That’s your winner!
Pro Tip: Keep a log of what you’ve tried and how it felt. This will help you identify which workout sparks joy and which one to leave behind.
But What If I Really, Really Hate Exercising?
Okay, confession time: If you’re still muttering, “I hate it all,” here’s your challenge. Instead of picking a workout, pick something that feels less like exercise and more like fun:
Love music? Try dancing in your living room like nobody’s watching.
Need stress relief? Go for a walk while listening to your favorite podcast.
Have a competitive streak? Get into pickleball or tennis.
Pro Tip: If you hate exercising, rethink what "exercise" means. Find joy in movement—whether it’s dancing in your kitchen, playing with your kids, or taking a walk in nature. Movement doesn’t have to feel like a chore!
Final Thoughts: Stop Asking, Start Moving
Here’s the deal: The “perfect workout” isn’t handed to you on a silver platter. It’s discovered through trial and error. Experiment. Take a Zumba class. Try a yoga session. Jump rope for 10 minutes. Do a Body Combat workout. And most importantly, give yourself grace to figure out what clicks.
Remember, the best workout is the one you’ll actually do. Because at the end of the day, it’s not about finding the trendiest workout—it’s about finding your groove.
So stop overthinking, start your Workout Speed-Dating challenge today, and watch how fitness becomes not just doable, but enjoyable. 🚀
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